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Camp Question
How many camps do you recommend over the summer? We see different numbers across our friends and acquaintances and wondering what is the proper range for a rising junior (2026). Also, do you prefer academic mega camps to school specific?
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New comment Apr 19
Learn how to think, not what to think/do
Most recruiting services’ offers are just you buying someone’s brain and copying their formula and hoping it works for you. But only you know what is best for you. My hope is Ivy offers helps you how to think more than what to think. There is a tension between the value you have of yourself as a parent or player and the resulting place you land a college offer from. So many are fixated on the resulting offer but I think it is more crucial to work on your sense of personal value first. The players/parents with rock solid senses of who they are usually have a much easier time in the recruiting and college process. Maybe just riffing here. Any thoughts?
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New comment Apr 16
1 like • Apr 15
I agree completely! While going through recruiting with my daughter, she quickly found for herself that she was best suited for D3 so she could play. She also wanted high academic so she set her sights on NESCAC and didn't look back. I think knowing who you are as an athlete AND as a student, and to some degree, socially, really helps you find the right environment. Once you find that, the recruiting process (still isn't easy) is easier. Now going through it with my son, I am finding that he is following her lead in terms of process and narrowing down the targets. It is very early days for us so I don't know if it will work out, but I feel like he is comfortable in his choices.
What does recruiting do, functionally, for parents?
Been thinking a lot about this question. Most of the time, the parents I encounter don’t care if their kid goes to Alabama or not. What they do get very excited about is having something like a sport that gets their kid excited and interested and invested in their own college process vs. mom/dad hammering them to figure out where they want to go to school. Am I wrong here? My kids are small, college is a ways off, but, I can imagine, if my son loved football and it was something that got him to have better habits in school, do well in class, and got him invested in his future somewhat, that would be more than worth the effort of getting to practice/money and so on on my end, regardless of where he ended up at school. Thoughts?
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New comment Apr 8
1 like • Apr 7
I would agree that, for me, it was/is most important for my kids to find their best fit academically and athletically. The recruiting process, while emotional, definitely helps them to find that since their focus is on something specific to their abilities and measurables.
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Nancy Hardwick
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Parent of a '26 TE! I love reading other's advice and experience, it helped so much while going through recruiting with my daughter.

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Joined Apr 7, 2024
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