I am not sure if I am taking the concept of not displaying interest too far. Bilzerian really drives the concept of not showing girls interest or chasing girls. However I may be going to an extreme based on my lack of a perfect set up like he has. Lacking a set up where girls are coming to me I will have to show some kind of interest to get girls attention if I am in public. I am seeing a pattern where I am taking to girls in public but, I don't ask for numbers or anything ever. I have talked to a few girls several times and I see them once every few weeks, but I am not sure how to transition to hanging out with them without showing some level of interest in them. Help me out here I think I am being a little autistic about the concept of not showing interest.

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Hey guys I have noticed that each time I see a pretty girl I over analyze talking to her and I know I am a very good looking guy ( I am 6’3 and have a 6 pack almost ) I have heard women whenever they see me shirtless say “ He’s so fine” but I don’t ever think they are talking to me .

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