@Mridul Sharma No one needs to know how you make your money - you can do your trade job and then use the money to chisel out a high status lifestyle

Dude huge props to you and the many debates you’ve hosted. Keep it up can’t wait to see what you do next

The gym was what helped me bounce back after the breakup of my last relationship and that break up itself was the start of a long path of self improvement to this day. Breakups can be tough but there’s no fuel like heartbreak is you use it right 💪🏾

@Don Juan Dude, I am working a regular research tech job where I’m delivering body parts all day I’m still doing my best to get after it. I just connected a model that I met to a charity org that raises money for veterans to see if they can get something going. I met said model at a tequila promotion because I was invited by a friend who runs a social club in my city that invited me. And the way I met him wa a just by going out and putting myself out there. And I’m just working a 9-5. You have no excuses. You can do this. Take action 👊🏽

@Don Juan Through taking action here and there. Small steps in the beginning, which led to larger ones later on. I started first with attending local salsa dancing lessons and I met someone who eventually became one of my female friends. Through her she connected me to a photographer who then connected me to my friend who runs the social club.

@Mridul Sharma Yeah so just my two cents, but it’s better to think about it as attraction vs comfort. Are displaying more attraction cues like social media, preselection, confidence, etc vs comfort like being kind, generous, ability to provide. Most guys that girls would label fuckboys are guys that just maintained masculine boundaries and didn’t just roll over when a girl didn’t like that they were entertaining other options at the same time as her BUT he told from the jump he wasn’t going to be in a relationship with her. For me the distinction between a fuckboy and a man that maintains masculine boundaries is the lying. Both are displaying attraction cues.

@Mridul Sharma the end of your comment sounds like you’re thinking about mental point origin. That just means putting yourself first before others because being the best version of yourself and being in a better position you can better help others.