What is the best way to flirt with a girl when at a restaurant? (First date) do not i have known her for almost a year now. She's very hot and cold over text leaving me on delivered for days. Then when she answers it's either short replies or like 4 minute video replies. She's much more different and warm in person. I've subtly announced my interest in her but probably not enough to confirm for her that i actually am interested. Might be a stupid question but given the context i gave i could get some good answers. Whether she reciprocates the romantic interest is not important.