i had to learn this copy lesson the hard way…
Hey 4D army, I have a big lesson to share with you in this community post. Something that no one’s probably told you before… Since, people usually learn this lesson from a bad experience. (Like I did.) Let me take you back. During my beginner days, back when a goldfish with a keyboard could’ve smoked me in a copywriting competition. I was grinding hard, cranking out emails daily… And tossing them into Discord servers like breadcrumbs, hoping for feedback. It was all fun and games… until January 12th, 2024. That day, I wrote what I thought was my masterpiece. My magnum opus. I wrote the sign-off with pride… Re-read it, and thought, “Damn, I cooked.” The copy? Fire. The structure? Impeccable. The CTA? Chef’s kiss. Feeling unstoppable… I uploaded my email to not 1, not 2, but 3 Discord servers. “There’s no way anyone critiques this,” I told myself, Smugly imagining compliments pouring in like confetti at a parade. But oh, how wrong I was. At 3:23 PM, I treated myself to a juicy, buttery ribeye steak. I was on top of the world. When I got back to my desk, still drying my hands from the dishes, I saw it: “New Gmail Notification: 4 people added comments to your document.” “Ah, here come the compliments,” I thought. Grinning as I clicked on the doc like a lion ready to bask in applause. But instead of roaring applause, I saw… 👊13 gut-punching comments ripping my email apart.👊 One by one, the critiques slapped me in the face like icy water. “This intro doesn’t flow,” “The CTA is weak,” “This entire section feels clunky.” They didn’t outright say, “This sucks”... But the message was loud and clear. Let me tell you, I didn’t just doubt my email—I doubted my entire existence. I closed my laptop and didn’t touch it for the next 37 hours. I sat there, staring into space, replaying every comment in my head. “Am I cut out for this?” I whispered to myself, the screen’s glow reflecting off my unshed tears. But here’s the thing: I wasn’t bad. I was just tying my ego to my copy.