Have you ever been in a conversation where you felt like your words just weren’t landing? And no matter how hard you tried to connect with that person (or people), how many rapport building techniques you used, your words just "disappeared" into a void? Something felt... off. Here’s the One main potential reason: It might not have been what you were saying, or even how you formulated your words. but HOW you were feeling while saying it. Someone very wise once said, : " Energy introduces you before you speak" is true. It's also true, that "energy speaks while you are speaking" Emotional (and energetic) congruence is when your inner emotional state aligns perfectly with your words and intentions. This IS the secret ingredient that makes your communication feel authentic, impactful, and ultimately powerful. By "powerful", I mean, impactful. In NLP there is a saying that "the meaningh of your communication is the result you get". I always add, "the meaning of your communication gets filtered through your energetic filter".... Take a moment to think about it: if you’re feeling insecure while trying to convince someone to trust your words, they’ll instantly sense it, even if your words sound confident. Thery are picking your energetic vibration which calibrates subconsciously. Humans are wired to pick up on subtle emotional cues, and any mismatch between your energy and your words WILL always break trust in an instant. Here’s a quick experiment for today (I am inviting you to take is as a fun challenge): Before your next important conversation, pause for a moment. Ask yourself: - “What outcome do I want for this person?” - "What experience do I want to be for them?" - “Am I fully energetically connected to achieving the purpose here?” (pay attention to how you feel in your "gut") - "How do I feel about myself right now?" If the answers generate any level of discomfort, take a deep breath and imagine what it would feel like to already have their trust, their excitement, or their commitment.

I have a challenge for you here and invite you to participate fully....Lets dive in and put our hearts to it... If you look back at your life and all your learnings, discoveries, wisdom and "overcomings", what would you advice the child version of yourself, who hasn't experienced anything that you have yet.? What would be the most powerful thought you would like them to live by... Please share your thoughts in the spirit of enhancing awareness and expanding the conversations we've had... @Brian Murray @Adam Dove-Dixon @Robin Davids @Lisa R @Griffin A. Hamilton @Dave Heraud @Alan Paul @Angela Perry @Francesco Patafi @Devon Meadows @Orest Zwozdesky @Randy Hyden @Sandhi Spiers @Sandhi Spiers @Sarah Hankins @Jawed Iqbal @Anna Nowak

I am curious, as for everyone, Christmas evokes different feelings... For me, there ids an element of nostalgia for the times past and the magic of the way I remember it back in Poland where tradition was ancient and very much alive... How are you celebrating and what is your most predominant thought?

Hello, everyone! 🌟 Today has been a very productive day, and I couldn’t feel more motivated to share this with you all. 💪 Remember, no matter how you feel, keep going—even on the tough days when it seems like giving up might be easier. Growth happens when we push through, one step at a time. You’re stronger than you think, and every effort counts. And hey, don’t forget to get your daily cup for the grind—satisfaction in every sip, crafted with purpose. ☕ What small (or big) wins did you have today? Share them with the community—we’d love to celebrate together! 🎉 Coffee Hour at Don Matias Café From our family to your cup, creating a better world, one community and one conversation at a time. #StayMotivated #CommunityVibes #KeepGoing #CraftedWithPurpose

As we step into a new week, let’s take a moment to reflect, recharge, and refocus. Sunday is the perfect day to slow down, savor a cup of coffee, and think about the journey ahead. ☕✨ This week, let’s discuss: "What is one small habit or mindset shift you can adopt to bring more growth and positivity into your life?" 💡 Share your thoughts and insights below! Let’s inspire each other to take one step closer to our goals, one cup and one conversation at a time. 🔗 Don’t forget to invite a friend to join the discussion—after all, great ideas are better when shared. Coffee Hour at Don Matias Café: From our family to your cup, creating a better world, one community and one conversation at a time. https://www.skool.com/coffee-hour-4960/about