my wife has been making the vacations plans from what dates work best with school, plane flights, hotels, where we are going and for how long. The mental load has been a lot. I have made a commitment to much more involved in the planning and packing and prep involved. Coughing up the money for the trip is not enough. This is a big one that I have taken action on.

My wife figures out what camp, how long and what weeks the kids are going to be registered for.