I read the game and it helped me a lot to improve and understand patterns that repeat themselves, which another book recommended reading, currently reading atomic habits

When I approach girls in college they aren‘t interested in hanging out with me. Instead they find a lie to stay away from and look at me weird When I approach strangers it’s better because the women are more friendly and they are more responsive to me. How should I go about communicating with girls differently in college. My mom told me that I shouldn’t ask for the phone number the first time, I should introduce myself the first time and then be patient. How should I go about talking with college girl’s differently than strangers?

Just bought meta glasses! I would love shoot some approaches it! However I get a very bad anxiety before approaching, how can I deal with this ?