If there was one piece of advice you could give someone who suddenly realized that they had way more personal power than they ever imagined, and are experiencing an identity crisis, also regretting wasted time, what advice (and a piece of wisdom), would you give them for the road ahead? Lets share your thoughts...

I thought of writing this today and sharing, as this has profound implications for our optimization. I am also looking for your input. We were told that geniuses are different from us and possess some kind of extraordinary unique abilities which make them a genius. Having bought into this idea we never looked into what it is that makes them extraordinary... I think I cracked that code and experienced and observed measurable objective results... I found that the access to the "genius zone" lies in the intersection between the unconscious mind, and the super conscious which is the intelligent field of possibilities, which when accessed gives us the ability to navigate complexities we never thought possible... Without diving into the spiritual matrix, I found that when we access that Domain, things happen in an extraordinary way. Examples: - A guy who was the most constrained and self conscious dude- an engineer from HongKong - a student of mine, suddenly developed an ability to write amazing poetry which he brought to class, followed by unlocking the comedic talent. Proceeded to become a well recognized stand up comedian in my city.... - A dude wrote an amazing piano piece (dedicate to me), which is being performed. never wrote music before but played piano at a high level - I learned French in only three months from zero, to be able to get admission to a top College in Montreal. Graduated at top 3 percent of all graduates in Quebec. This was my first experience of accessing the zone. This was a catalyst for my quest, which I cracked... - A student memorized a massive textbook in one evening to pass an exam the next day with a result of 96 percent. - A dude raised 16 millon in one day to make his company go public... - A student wrote a Math exam which was to take place over 3 hours, in only 15 minutes, with a score of 100 percent. Proceeded to get his Phd in Mathematics which he completed in only 1 year. I discovered the weaknesses in the Law off Attraction and came up with something much more effective...

I have a challenge for you here and invite you to participate fully....Lets dive in and put our hearts to it... If you look back at your life and all your learnings, discoveries, wisdom and "overcomings", what would you advice the child version of yourself, who hasn't experienced anything that you have yet.? What would be the most powerful thought you would like them to live by... Please share your thoughts in the spirit of enhancing awareness and expanding the conversations we've had... @Brian Murray @Adam Dove-Dixon @Robin Davids @Lisa R @Griffin A. Hamilton @Dave Heraud @Alan Paul @Angela Perry @Francesco Patafi @Devon Meadows @Orest Zwozdesky @Randy Hyden @Sandhi Spiers @Sandhi Spiers @Sarah Hankins @Jawed Iqbal @Anna Nowak

I decided to share this thought as many people asked me about this, and also, in my view, many NLP practitioners and Master practitioners have been misled by a wrong assumption, which has to do with the nature of rapport. The idea of pacing and leading and matching and mirroring, has been distorted, with bad consequences - mainly a dis-rapport... We've been told that we must mirror another person so that they feel connected to us. While on a very superficial level, it's true, it is also completely false, on another level... Here's why; rapport happens on an unconscious level, and when we are in rapport, we automatically match the other person. The two unconscious minds recognize each other, and orchestrate the matching, which happens across multiple dimensions such as body language, facial expression. heartbeat, color of the skin, and even sequencing of words in communications. This can be observed in auditoriums where one row of people seats in the same position. This means, they are following a "subconscious leader" in the group, and are completely unaware of it. The matching needs to happen initially when we ask questions and create general observations. The unconscious rapport will happen when they trust us, and our intentions are pure. The truth is - people respond to perceived intent... and instantly and unconsciously adapt physiology to that perception. When we meet a person, there are multiple things we need to do to connect with them: First, establish a clear intent with respect to them ,and our interaction with them. Second there are specific techniques to abolish resistance, such as what I call, the "Silver Platter Formula", which is purely Ercicksonian, and instantly abolished resistance hypnotically. It goes deep, very fast...! This is the rapport Building System that works like a dream, and is absolutely necessary as a tool for Practitioners... Mirroring someone like a puppet is a formula for disaster, as we are consciously unable to be congruent across all the subtleties of the matching, and when trying to do so, we get into our head, and forget about the person in front of us... It's as if they are not even there...

I want as many of you to benefit from our calls as possible as this is the cornerstone of this community. It is where you get the value. It is where you can learn, share, transform and just be a part of it. Get in the mud with us so to speak. I have noticed that I tend to always have the same people on my calls, which IS AMAZING! These are my founding members, and are so important and wonderful to me, but this is a movement. A collective experience co-created. I want to make it possible for as many of you to join these calls as possible. SO! In the interest of engaging as many people so that we can create the biggest impact possible, WHAT TIME WORKS FOR YOU ( on a Friday) for a 30- 45min call...