After the amazing New Year's Zoom, I immediately downloaded and started listening to Mel Robbins' book- The Let Them Theory. I highly recommend this book. What is occurring to me is what a vast amount of time I have devoted to being in other people's business (in my head) and thinking/knowing what is best for them. Do I even know what is best for me--do I practice what is best for my energy--not when I am disapproving of their lives and thinking I can "control" anyone else. When I disapprove of how people are acting--I say/think LET THEM--act the way they act. LET ME stay in my lane and keep my energy focused on what I can shift or change in my system.