so you've approached a person
your talking to them
its going good
until...
there is an awkward pause
then you get in your head
you don't know what to say...
you start overthinking
fuck
the conversation has gone to shit and its boring the both of you...
here is how to prevent that boring ass conversation and become flawlessly charismatic with anyone
literally just pretend like you already know the person...
if i asked you to talk to your mum, dad, sister or brother for 3 hours straight
you would be able to do it
and you would be able to do it authentically
do you know why?
because you already know them
your relaxed around them
you've already made the first impression
you don't care what they think of you
because at the end of the day its you
and if they don't like you that is not your problem
so why not just do this with anyone and everyone
just act like you already know them
convince yourself
visualize
affirmate
anything to make you act like you know them
this will make you act completely authentic and it will remove that stupid filter you have over your mouth...
and hey
if they don't like you
or judge you
that's their problem
and you guys are simply not compatible
ok goodnight:)