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Sept 16th Evening Call - Values

We throw around the word values like the word self-love. What does it truly mean to you? What is important to you so that you experience the relationship you desire? You'll find them in your values. This is your moral compass to guide you in your relationship with yourself first, to embody them, so that you experience these values in your relationship. Not necessarily to place or expect them from others. Some will hold different weight but it's up to you to find what you hold dear to establish more CLARITY in your life. Clarity is power, and when we're clear, we can know more of what we're looking for only because we hold and exude what we're looking for. Here are some values to take stock, examine, and clarify how important we hold on these values AND to embody them in ourselves first.

1. Emotional Intelligence

Empathy: Can he understand and share your feelings?
Self-Awareness: Is he aware of his emotions and able to manage them constructively?
Communication Skills: Can he express himself clearly and listen attentively?

2. Shared Values

Life Goals: Do you have aligned visions for the future, including family, career, and lifestyle?
Core Beliefs: Are your morals and principles compatible?
Spiritual Connection: Do you share similar beliefs or approaches to spirituality?

3. Emotional Support

Nurturing: Does he offer comfort and support during tough times?
Encouragement: Does he motivate you to pursue your passions and personal growth?
Dependability: Can you rely on him when needed?

4. Mutual Respect

Boundaries: Does he respect your personal space, time, and decisions?
Equality: Does he view the relationship as a partnership where both of you have equal importance?
Appreciation: Does he value your opinions, efforts, and contributions?

5. Trust and Honesty

Transparency: Is he open about his life and feelings?
Consistency: Does his behavior align with his words over time?
Loyalty: Can you count on him to stay committed and faithful?

6. Compatibility

Interests and Hobbies: Do you enjoy spending time together and share common interests?
Conflict Resolution: Can you resolve disagreements calmly and respectfully?
Physical Attraction: Is there a mutual sense of attraction and chemistry?

7. Emotional Availability

Commitment Readiness: Is he open to a long-term, serious relationship?
Vulnerability: Can he express his true feelings and be emotionally open with you?
Past Baggage: Has he worked through past relationships and is he emotionally available now?

8. Financial Stability

Financial Responsibility: Does he manage his finances wisely?
Shared Financial Goals: Are you aligned in how you view money and financial planning for the future?
Supportive Partnership: Does he contribute to the financial well-being of the relationship?

9. Personal Growth

Self-Improvement: Is he committed to becoming a better version of himself?
Open to Feedback: Can he accept constructive criticism and work on the relationship?
Growth Mindset: Does he believe in growing together through challenges?

Bonus: Complimentary - Balance in Strengths: Does he complement your strengths and weaknesses, creating a balanced partnership?

Personality Fit: Do your personalities fit together in a way that enhances each other’s qualities?

Supportive Differences: Are his differences positive, adding value to the relationship and helping you both grow?

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