How do you handle plans getting blown out of the water?
Anger, disappointment, frustration, sadness can all lead to problems with your spouse.
My birthday plans changed when a kiddo came home from school sick and my husband started feeling bad.
Instead of a full day together and going out for dinner … I got to comfort the sweet girl that felt so bad for “ruining” my day.
I get to model to her that we get to create our own experience. And assure her my day was not ruined!
I get to show her my happiness in my relationship with her father is not contingent on 1 Date. That when you have a strong relationship hiccups like these don’t lead to destructive behaviors.
I love that I got this experience, and that my sweet girl was feeling 100% by the evening!💕💕🙌🏼
So the importance of ending my destructive relationships allows me to show up as the best mom possible! And show them what is possible and what to expect!