So, you did it. You decided to remove this thing that was getting in the way of your presence, happiness, and productivity—everything you want to build up. This kind of brought you down, and you decided you've had enough. You deleted social media.
First off, high five! 🙌
Seriously, congratulations on taking this step. It's not something a lot of people are willing to do. It's clear that you're not like everyone else—in a good way. You're forging your own path in life, and you know what's best for you. You decided to go out and do this, and that's sincerely a big deal.
For some people, it might not seem like much. "Yeah, I just deleted some app." But for many of us, it's huge. Getting off these apps is a major life change, and you should be proud of yourself for taking this first step.
The Time Warp
Now, here's where it gets interesting. Many of us spent 3-4 hours a day on social media—and that's on the low end! Some people scroll for 6, 8, even 10 hours a day. (I'm not joking, it gets that bad for some folks.)
Let's do some math:
- 4 hours a day = 28 hours a week
- 28 hours a week = 1,460 hours a year
That's 1,460 hours a year that you just freed up. Holy guacamole! 🥑
The Void
But here's the thing that happens to about 95% of people who delete social media: You might feel a bit... lost.
You've removed this huge time-suck from your life, but now what? Your brain is used to that constant stimulation, that endless scroll, that dopamine hit every time you see a new post or get a like.
The Trap
Here's where a lot of people fall into a trap. They quit Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat, only to find themselves binge-watching Netflix or YouTube for hours instead.
Look, I get it. I've been there too. And while I personally think YouTube and Netflix are a step up from endless social media scrolling (at least you might learn something!), spending all your newly freed time on these platforms isn't much better.
The Opportunity
But here's the exciting part: You now have an opportunity. An opportunity to fill that time with something meaningful, something that will actually improve your life.
Remember all those things you've always wanted to do but "never had time for"?
- Learning to play an instrument
- Starting a workout routine
- Reading more books
- Learning to code
- Improving your cooking skills
- Starting a side hustle
Well, guess what? You've just found 1,460 hours a year to do those things!
The Action Plan
So, here's your mission, should you choose to accept it:
- Choose One Thing: Pick one skill or activity you've always wanted to pursue. Just one. Write it down.
- Start Small: Don't try to fill all 4 hours right away. Start with 15-30 minutes a day. Remember, 15 minutes is infinitely better than 0 minutes.
- Be Consistent: Try to do it every day, even if it's just for a short time. Consistency is key.
- Increase Gradually: As you get more comfortable, slowly increase the time you spend on your new activity.
- Reflect: At the end of each week, think about how you feel. Are you learning? Growing? Feeling more fulfilled?
Now, I'm not saying you should never watch YouTube or Netflix again. That's not realistic (or fun). Instead, try this: limit your "content consumption" to the last hour of your day. Use it as a wind-down activity before bed.
The Challenge
Here's your challenge: For the next week, every time you feel the urge to check social media (which you can't, because you deleted it—good job!), do your new activity instead. Even if it's just for 5 minutes.
At the end of the week, take stock:
- How many new skills have you learned?
- How much progress have you made?
- How do you feel compared to when you were scrolling endlessly?
Share your goals, your progress, and your struggles in the comments below.
Remember, you've already taken the hardest step by deleting social media. Now it's time to turn that empty space into something amazing. You've got this! 💪
So, what's your "one thing" going to be?