Men I need 🫵🏽 to answer this
Most people never call this one by its real name. (Self-blame). Not the healthy kind, where you own your mistakes and take responsibility. That kind is good. That's just growing up. I'm talking about the kind where somebody else makes a bad decision and your first thought is, "that was my fault." The kind where your friend falls away and you think, "I should have said something sooner." Or somebody hurts you, and your brain still finds a way to land it back on you: "I must have done something to cause this." If that's you, this might be hard to hear. That's not humility. That's pride turned inward.