If you ever run a photoshoot, girls will inevitably ask you “What should I wear?”
One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES I see guys make is to say “It’s a lingerie shoot, so wear lingerie.”
TONS of girls will refuse to come just because you say that. Lingerie is just too sexual. If she thinks it’s on your mind, it will give her the “ick.”
“But Michael, I WANT them to model lingerie!”
Stop. We’re herding cats here. Any sudden move will spook them.
If you pick the right models and the right photographers, they will know what kind of shoot it is.
So here’s what you answer – “Wear whatever you feel comfortable posing in.”
Or – “Wear whatever you want to get content in.”
Say that, and the girls will not only show up – I bet you money that once they’re comfortable with the environment you have created, some of them will pose NUDE.
This kind of scenario has played out in other aspects of my life. Ask for less, get more.
Stoop to conquer.