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What up guys! I have been pondering about this. Should you unfollow women that don’t interact with you on Instagram but they still follow you?
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• Sep '24 (edited)
A follow for a follow seems fair to me. If she's following you, I see no harm in continuing to follow her. Unless she is constantly posting stuff which you really don't like. Then yeah, unfollow. But if, not, why?
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• Sep '24
okay true I just figured because I don’t dm them
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• Sep '24
It is more important for them to follow you then you follow them. You can still send messages if they follow you (might not work if theirs is a private account).
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• Sep '24
okay makes sense. Michael always says you can dm women without following them if their accounts are public.
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• Sep '24
I am only following the women who I am engaging in good quality conversation. And I am a choosy MF'er. Just because I am chatting on IG, does not mean I follow them. I use IG chat as the gate security guard check point. If it grows, we go to a more personal platform (WhatsApp). Then they get my follow.
Its like, Having a group for women wanting to get into the house party. If I let them in, they are in. But Im using IG in a way, I hope it may help me show the highest level of Pre-Selection, while maintaining a High level of Hypergemy amongst the masses?
I'm using my self as an fucking experiment. I am the guinnie pig. (been up since 2:30 AM)
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• Sep '24
Don't interact meaning never reply to your messages? If yes, a lot of the times I will. I honestly get sick of the girls who watch all of my stories every day but never respond to a single DM. But that's just me.
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• Sep '24
I agree bro lol I literally remove followers of women that I have no interest of
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• Sep '24
Debatable for sure. 100% not following any women who don't follow me back though
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• Sep '24
same problem here. I have many relative hot girls on my IG, some of them I know them in person or others are coming from dating apps or IG itself. Even if we know them, I think unfollow them is debatable. I'm fed up of girls showing up their asses and tits all around my IG. Like my question is, are them adding any value to me? If the answer is no, should I still follow them in order to have my chances with them?
I took the option of "silence them", but to be honest is not very convincing since I should silence half of my IG.
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• Oct '24
I think about this a lot too. I wish Instagram would let you create different feeds or lists like Twitter.
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• Oct '24
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• Sep '24
I don't follow people that do not follow me, what is the point.
I actually not really look at the feed, and not interested in looking at it, so I follow very few selected friends
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• Oct '24
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• Sep '24
As a general rule, I only follow women who either follow me back or I personally know in real life.
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• Oct '24
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• Oct '24
It's up to you but I don't think it really matters. No one is looking into your profile as much as you are. In terms of results it won't change anything. But if you don't want to waste your time and actually clean up your list like that then it can certainly help you focus more time and energy on responsive opened threads.
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• Sep '24
Depends on your account. Some of my accounts I don’t follow anyone. Other ones I follow anyone.
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• Oct '24
What's the best app for tracking who has unfollowed me on Instagram? This one doesn't work consistently, so I'm curious if there is a better option: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=followers.unfollowers.instagram.tracker
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• Oct '24
So I’ll actually get them to accept the follow and then unfollow them lol haven’t lost any. But honestly it doesn’t seem to matter as long as they’re seeing you
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• Nov '24
I generally just don't follow anyone on Instagram. It's such a low number.
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If it’s a mutual follow I could see an argument for both.
Here is what I would consider:
-Does the stuff they post add value or make you laugh?
-If someone looked through your followers (girlfriend, family, etc.) would those followers be congruent? For instance, when I started formalizing w my girlfriend, I started unfollowing women posting thirst traps and women I was previously going after.
-What is the goal of the connection? Just staying in touch? Interest in dating? Invite her to events? Collabs?
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• Oct '24
I wouldn't bother. If they unfollow then reciprocate. If they aren't engaging then they either have a personal reason not to, or you haven't raised your status enough to be relevant to them.
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• Oct '24 (edited)
The question is: do you want your feed to have lots of useless and annoying posts of people you do not know? I prefer my IG to be useful and minimal.
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To be honest even though follow for follow seems fair. I don't think it that way. If someone does not interest you, just don't follow them.
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