One of my personal experiences of getting to know women is mostly through the gym how I did it was a challenge for me for the past 5 years and one particular book had helped was How to Win Friends and Influence People and this was way before I join the MOA forum but I still have to give where credit is due because since joining the MOA forum it made me analyze it deeper and understand human behavior a bit better and to that let's dive in of what I learn and what I experience.
- Getting to know the staff/ trainers
One of the most important things that have helped was getting to know the staff and personal trainer I greeted them like I had known them for years it sounded Weird but trust me it works getting to know their names and they usually have staff members' information on a website and a wall on the gym of their schedule of what time they come in and what time they train, so before I do my work out I do small talk getting to know them little by little and eventually they will open to you and they will soon start to introduce women and some men too as well but mostly woman that when you treat them all the same and make them talk about themselves, and side note personal trainers have access to beautiful woman it's something I have noticed throughout of my 5 years of going the gym and rarely or sometimes I train with personal trainers or I invite them to train with me and its free because the moment when their clients (woman) see me training with their trainer it gives them ease or a familiar Environment to trust me and accept me of part of their inner circle and before I Leave I say good bye or see you tomorrow with a fist bump to everyone I met including the staff that works their and this will help to build your list in person.
2. be valuable
being valuable means knowing your workouts because their trainer isn't always going to be they might have some time off, and they might be on vacation, and there will be a chance she might ask for some advice it doesn't happen all the time but now and then she might ask one or two questions if her form is correct but keep it professional and go into details of what muscle fibers are hitting parts of her body (don't touch her) point out body parts on your body you still want her to feel comfortable and remember treat her like a guy and let her know what type of supplement you taking because she will ask one day and also learn those supplements/ Vitamins because it good to be inform of what your taking and also she going to ask you the effects of what they have on the body and she's going to be interested of what you say so she can self-improve on her health
3. photography/editing
If there's one thing gym girls love doing is taking pictures of themselves at the gym, and I will sometimes offer my service for free to be their cameraman if they ask to take pictures or videos. And it will be great content to post on your social media stories and it's short-term Content... For photos, I use Face app and for videos, I use cap cut and in shot and it will give you a perfect excuse to take a picture with them and upload it on your social media stories. You can tag them so their friends can see your stories. Also, I have noticed that a lot of dudes take pictures of themselves with the same pose and with a stoic look. And there isn't much traction for social media Algorithms to push content like that unless you do a before and after weight loss journey, then of course it's going to be pushed out because it's motivational but other than that you will only need your phone with a camera nothing more, and nothing less. but you will stand out if you take a picture with a gym girl that is right next to you and will get lots of views or attention from other women that you hardly know or rarely talk to, and this will help to use pre-selection even if it's with one female. Other females will see that, but this is my only 2 cent and what I have experienced.