I thought it would be beneficial if i shared my notes, thank you for
for the inspo. I am re-watching every single one and will share my refined notes.
When you feel like you’re going through something like relapsing and stress, that’s just life you aren’t going through anything
When choosing your wife, you want to choose the rare out of the rare
‘I feel max-funded from god with this contentment I have’ - Rely on Allah
Allah created us to sin, do you just sin or do you come back to him when you sin?
When you know why you shouldn’t be on social media then you won’t even feel like you have to resist it, you won’t find it challenging to quit.
And with praying you’ll start praying when you know why you have to pray
What Younis is teaching us is saving us thousands, you have to go to the top dogs to learn what he’s teaching
Opening the microwave a few seconds earlier is entering a trade early. Crossing the road when the lights still red but there’s no car in sight is entering a trade early.
Funneling your thought through a process, for example you see a sweet one, and then you funnel it through your love process where you’re looking for a woman that has X, Y and Z. If you then discover she’s not an A+ set up, then keep it moving she’s not your wife
Funnel your thought through the process, If you don’t, you’re just going to act on that thought and end up being with the woman that you found attractive, when you could be finding your wife
Allah would of given you your wife, but you didn’t wait so he’s going to delay it
In a few months you will be out the darkness, you will be happy, proud of yourself, feel successful, no matter where you are funded or not you will feel successful, you’ll be glowing
Your life will never as perfect as you want it to be until you’re a good Muslim, you won’t be truly happy and content, you’re just deluded by the devil which wants you to think that when you get funded you become happy, and that lasts for a moment and then you want more funded
You will be moonified
Get your life in order before you talk about football
You need to stop trading because you’re not only doing things when there’s holes missing in your process and your mind but you’re trading how you’re trading, thinking that’s going to make you a successful trader while you’re learning what actually will make you better and they’re conflicting with each other. You have to stop that, learn this and go back and do it properly
Most people try to become a trader, but do you know what being a trader looks like? Because if you don’t it’s like trying to drive a car properly but not knowing what driving a car properly looks like.
A high value man has links
Any good action you do to impress others is a sin, don’t be that guy that does nice things and then brings it up.
Share stuff, this is why the community was created, nothing wrong with wanting validation
We are here to become and, in the process, we’re sharing our achievements
You will get to the point where you realize what’s value or not, everything you read or watch you will just know if its value or not.
Love is about your partner, your relationship with your mum, dad, cousins and siblings
Consistent in striving for excellence in all areas of life, that’s what the prophet P.B.U.H did, that is Islam
When you are becoming the best version of yourself, you start flying broo
In the process of striving to be the best version of yourself you will moon, there will be no coming back down
Rejection is redirection. Someone that doesn’t want you shouldn’t be your wife anyways, she can’t be your life partner, your wife she will fall in love and be obsessed with who you are
Striving for excellence every day is success and every time you fall back you just come back the next day, you don’t even feel sorry for yourself anymore
You can be someone that doesn’t have an edge, but you can be someone that is creating success because you’re trying to figure it out
You don’t have to wait to achieve anything to be successful, if you’re waiting to achieve something to be happy, you’ll never be happy
As soon as you set goals doesn’t mean you have to stick to that, you refine them until it suits you and its working
Consistency is doing things even if you’re tired and doing your best even if you don’t reach your goal of a 5km run and you did 2km, but people decide to not go on the run at all and that’s a wrong, defeated mindset
You’re still a hero if you went out and did 2km, that’s consistency
Short-term momentum impacts your long term momentum, how you do something in the short term is going to set you up for long term
It’s okay to relapse, if you quit smoking and you go back to it it’s okay, treat yourself with compassion, okay to make mistakes
Do not beat yourself up for mistakes, if you’re going to beat yourself up when you make a mistake, you’re self-sabotaging and you will go from that cigarette, ughh why did I smoke I quit for 9 days? And then you’re going to go have junk food to fix that ugly feeling and then porn
You will gain that intimate relationship with Allah by learning how to do an action properly, for example praying, what are you even saying in prayer? What is the correct way to pray? Etc.
If you plan on doing an action like praying, going hajj, fasting, business, sex etc. it becomes obligatory on you to learn how to do that thing properly, what validates and invalidates that action
Most actions we do, we’re obliged to seek knowledge how to do it properly, most traders don’t do that
Focus on the sincerity of the action, focus on the qualities of your actions, what validates a prayer what invalidates
Actions are weighed by the sincerity and how mindful you do the action, not how many actions you do
Otherwise, when you do pray for example, it might weigh nothing, compared to the one doing mindful, intensity, thinking that the angel of death could be behind him, that it could be his last prayer etc.
You need a clean gut and that’s from righteous actions, your gut will be a compass in your life
You have to truly accept where you are in the spectrum of evolution, otherwise you’ll go through phases where 2 weeks later you’re not accepting where you are so you’re rushing the process, you’ve now shifted into that wanting it now feeling
Change your perspective, look at yourself as a construction site, there’s rubble, concrete, planks of wood... it’s a mess and the building is still being built. You’ll have a lot more compassion towards yourself with this perspective
But if things have to be perfect and you think you’re not going to make another mistake then you’re going to get disappointed
The ego is who you think you are not what you actually are, ego lives in the tension between what you are and what you want to be
If you think you’re this person, you think you’re resilient, patient, good at losing and you’re not... you’re going to unconsciously expect the results to align with who you think you are but if they don’t, you’re going to get frustrated, and it can go into a spiral of bad habits and feel really low
The sooner you accept yourself for where you are in the spectrum of evolution the quicker you will have compassion and empathy towards yourself, and you’ll be able to forgive yourself for making mistakes because you’re not expecting yourself to not make a mistake or operate at a level in life that you haven’t yet developed the skills and knowledge necessary to perform in that level
Once your heart is opened and gut is cleaned you see things differently
For the fasting man, for the charitable man, for the man that protects his private parts, for the man that’s patient, for them awaits a greater reward, greater than what you asked for
Why you stressed, why you impatient? Allah knows what he’s doing.
The bridge between where you are, and your goals and desires, is knowledge you have not yet discovered and skills you have not yet developed
PROCESS, PHYSIOLOGY, PSYCOLOGY
Engine is process, car and the driver is psychology, health of the driver is physiology
Faith: Most important thing is the oneness of god (tawhid) learning who god really is
Not everything a successful traders says is facts, that’s the most conditioned mindset to have to go to a successful trader and think everything he’s saying to you is facts
People wear a Rolex because you believe the guy wearing the rolex more than the one that’s not wearing it and its true, when Younis said he had no money you felt anxious
Mind: You want to get to the point where you empty the cup to the point where your thoughts are only filled with positive things, and with bad things you can recognize that these are unhelpful, let them be there accept them but they’re not contributing to your goals
The man that can relapse but quickly forgive himself, is the one that will turn to god and repent and is on the right path straight way, the other one is beating themselves up and going into a spiral
Jealousy, stinginess, envy and greed is a disease in the heart
Think about the first step in the aspect of your life you’re trying to improve that’ll move you in the direction. What does that first step look like I.e. for trading it could be to develop a strategy
Reflect on you where your meant to be not what you want. 1) Mind – You’re meant to have a healthy mind, a long-lasting body, to be self-aware, emotionally intelligent, present, mindful, to concentrate and focus, to have a clear de-cluttered mind 2) Body - You’re meant to have a healthy body. 3) Career – You’re meant to be successful trader 4) Faith - You’re meant to be a good Muslim