From the 4 Agreements written by Don Miguel Ruiz; We agree to all symbols, letters, words, ideas, labels, and laws within our lives. We are born into it, we normalize it, and we often don't think about it. Often we do not have a choice and are "programmed" with all these agreements. But with deep work and practice you can change your agreements with life. You can change your mindset, your relationships, your labels, your self image. You may seem delusional to others, but you could agree with yourself to not care.