Benefits of camera confidence:
- No friction/nervousness to recording videos, which is often necessary on skool
- Increased trust in high quality potential clients - if they see your videos
- Get people to actually like you
You have 2 choices:
- Some people love you, and some people don't like you
- Nobody cares because you're boring and inauthentic
4 shifts
Shift #1: Pretend you're recording the video for your best friend
- How do you act around the people you're most comfortable with?
- What kind of humor do you have with them?
Shift #2: Understand that you care about yourself more than anybody else does
- You are likely very self obsessed.
- Nobody analyzes you, or thinks about stuff after it happens
Shift #3: Don't try to appeal to everybody
- Accept that there will be people who don't like you, and that's okay
Shift #4: Don't pretend to be anything that you're not
- If you lie, or pretend in any way, you will feel and look stupid
- Humans in general are great lie detectors, stop faking it
ACTION STEP:
- Record a loom video pretending you're talking to your best friends, talk about what you've done today or what you're doing! If you're brave, post it in the comments below!