What’s going on fellas, so I initially came to ask a question. I advise you to look at the situation from both perspectives. So I’ve brought infidelity into my marriage, we’ve been married 3 years but together for 10. I’ve been on a growth track since my last situation trying to stay focus and committed. I have to admit it’s tough coming from a womanizer (before marriage). Besides all of that, I try to do whatever it takes to not trigger the old me. So the problem I see is that she wants to work a night shift from 11pm to 7am. I strongly believe that this will trigger my older ways. As long as she’s around or I'm busy then we are good which is normally during the day. At night is like date nights or just we catching up, now she won’t be around at night. I’m low key afraid of that because I’m content with how I’ve changed for the better within the last 2 years. We’ve talked about it and I explained it to her but she insists on taking this position. See I’m not trying to be selfish because this relationship isn't just about me. Love to see a working woman but I believe a night shift isn’t suitable for a relationship with some infidelity history. So from man to man how can I handle this?

Do y’all think we as men should open up ?

I just want to ask why can't woman be like man thinking practically

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So I have a girlfriend of 1 year who wants space but still wants to hang out occasionally and communicate, but her space is defined as we won't be spending the night at each other's places. What should I do?