Hey everyone! Letâs take a moment to talk about our inner Judge Judy. You know, that voice in your head thatâs quick to pass judgmentâon yourself, others, or situations. Itâs sneaky, and often these judgments quietly shape our behavior, steering us in directions we might not even realize. đ¤âď¸
Hereâs todayâs challenge:
1ď¸âŁ Notice your judgments: Throughout the day, pay attention to the judgments that pop up.
- Are you judging yourself for not being âproductive enoughâ?
- Judging someone else for how they act or speak?
- Or maybe youâre judging a situation as âbadâ or âhopelessâ?
2ď¸âŁ Ask yourself: What trajectory do these judgments set me on? Do they push you into action, cause you to shut down, or keep you stuck in a loop of self-criticism or frustration?
3ď¸âŁ Reflect on your response: What do you usually do when these judgments arise? Do you follow their lead, or can you pause and choose a different path?
⨠Action Step: Today, whenever you catch your inner Judge Judy at work, pause and ask yourself, Is this judgment serving me? Then, explore what it would feel like to respond differently.
Whatâs one judgment you noticed today, and how did it shape your behavior? Share below if youâre comfortable, and letâs support each other in breaking free from judgment-driven habits. đŹđ
Remember, noticing is the first step to choosing a different path. Letâs learn to befriend our inner Judge Judy and guide our actions with intention. đż