Nov '23 in General discussion
The Horse Girl
I had always heard growing up to stay away from girls who are into horses. But, sometimes there is a cute one and you have to shoot your shot right?
So I matched with a girl on the dating app "Hinge" and she was a cute petite blonde who rode horses competitively. We decided to meet up for a date to see how we like each other.
I chose a nice bar in the historic part of downtown that had a deck with a nice view. The weather was good and I figured it would be a nice setting.
She showed up and looked pretty cute. She gave me a hug and we were seated on the outdoor deck with a nice view as planned. We ordered a couple of beers.
She explained that she had just come from riding her horse. No problem. That's what a horse girl would be expected to do I suppose.
I detected on the air as the wind blew slightly a delicate scent of B.O. and I thought. "Is that me?"
My mind raced...I had showered right before coming and know I put on deodorant. Surely it wouldn't be her...?
But the wind blew again, from her direction and yes, yes it was her.
I thought "she knew she was coming on a date, does she know she smells? She could easily go to the bathroom and take a damp paper towel and wipe her arm pits, why didn't she?"
So this was dominating my thoughts and my nostrils.
We got into some light getting to know each other conversation and I found out I was the first date she had been on in 4 years.
Well that's interesting...hmmmm...
She went on to explain that she had been in a long term relationship and was engaged. She and her fiancee had gone on a trip to Hawaii and taken surfing lessons. During the surfing lesson, her fiancee got pulled under in a current and drowned. So he had died and it messed her up pretty bad.
And now, I'm the first date she'd been on since that happened.
So, I was thinking...this might not work out.
She was pretty attractive though so that definitely counts for something but a girl with stinky armpits and who is working out some major trauma might not be the right choice for me.
After our drinks we walked around the historic downtown area for another 30 minutes then I walked her to her car, we hugged and parted ways. (this date was at around 3pm by the way)
She followed up the next couple of days saying she had a good time and would like to go out again.
I thought about it, but decided against it and told her it wasn't a good match.
I'm curious what you guys would have done? Thoughts?
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