https://youtu.be/LfJ3xhXahVo

There's a party going on in your city RIGHT NOW. All the coolest guys are there, every GORGEOUS woman that you would chew through your own ankle for a chance to date. They're all there ...... and you're not invited. But they WOULD invite you ... as long as they know you're not a HATER. Nothing ruins a high-status bacchanal like a hater. So we NEVER talk about people behind their backs.Not even when you KNOW they’re acting badly. There's no such thing as a perfect mentor. You don't have to look hard to find things to nitpick about high-status men. Deficiencies or character flaws that you can harp on to feel morally superior, to justify to yourself why YOU don't have their status and feel better about your own comparative "loserdom". But for those of us who actually WANT high status (rather than just complain about how some people have it made) ...... We don't HATE on people who are above us. We LEARN from them. How can you implement this rule in your life?