“The truth is that the only way you will ever feel comfortable approaching women is by becoming comfortable with yourself.” Confidence with others, particularly in romantic pursuits, stems from a deep, authentic connection to who you are. This means letting go of any pretense or the desire to impress, and instead focusing on self-awareness, self-respect, and self-acceptance. By addressing your own insecurities and embracing your individuality, you naturally exude the kind of grounded energy that attracts others. The point isn’t to adopt tactics or manipulate outcomes but to focus on your internal growth. This approach not only helps in dating but transforms how you show up in all relationships. Ultimately, it’s about becoming the best version of yourself, not for others, but because that’s who you want to be. What is one thing you can do today to get more comfortable with yourself? Share your thoughts in the comments below—I’d love to hear your perspective.

According to humanistic psychology, the strongest desire in human psychology is the desire to be congruent with how we see ourselves, meaning that our self-image (how we perceive ourselves) aligns closely with our ideal self (who we want to be), leading to a sense of self-actualization and well-being. In short this means you are whoever you believe yourself to be and your subconscious mind will find and create circumstances to validate that.. If you believe yourself to be a smoker, then its true. If you believe yourself to be a loser, then its true. If you believe yourself to be an unstoppable force, then its true. Choose your beliefs carefully and guard your mind.

King. If you are in her frame and her frame says “Budgeting is a red flag” This means she believes “spending money loosely and not budgeting is good” Meaning she is financially illiterate. Leave this type of woman alone. She is likely poor.