Whether you want to surf or not the waves are coming.
A lot of the personal development industry has brainwashed us that we should have high self esteem by default. FALSE. We need results to build confidence Pain, overcoming obstacles, blood, sweat, tears, wins. A man is judged by his accomplishments, his life’s work. Women can be hot and young. It’s enough. Good photos and make-up. For a man, results matter. Unlike women, men bear the weight of their family's well-being. Our roles are to hunt and protect, while women nurture and take care of the home. With responsibility comes power. Power comes stress. Handling stress effectively. First characteristic that defines a winner. Nobody was born a victor Peace and prosperity cannot be obtained without tribulation and chaos The Art of war is mental. Prepare yourself for hardship and suffering. Whether you want to surf or not the waves are coming. So, put in the work.