With the IG system not having worked for me really because I have a type of Asperger's Syndrome, I set out to do it the old school way. I am taking Salsa classes where I live and am opening a social circle in that community, getting to know the instructors and main people as well as dancers. I am of course getting social media contacts also. I am starting to get decent at Salsa and last night at an event got attention from some of the prettier and more advanced women dancers for the first time. So I am about to move to the "bridge to intermediate" class. My question is that I now find myself able to show higher status to younger women who are at the beginner dance class, but I don't know how to use this to approach them. Should I just never mention my age at all since I look like I am 34 and not 44?