I was sent a property that looked great (to me), and the seller wanted to move quick. After analyzing it I immediately sent an offer and submitted the deal to a recommended lender. They told me they liked the numbers and could close in two days. 5 days after that I was still getting excuses and being asked redundant questions. Finally, at the last minute before signing to close, they pulled out. No reason, stopped answering emails and refused my calls. No clue what got up the lenders ass. I called people I've worked with that know him. They reached out, pleaded my case, vouched for me without result. All have said they don't understand his problem and couldn't figure out what happened. My next move was to call the seller and ask for help, and reach out to the tiny network I have. I thought I had everything in place and realized that I need a bigger network so I have back ups and more choices to put me in control. In the end, I now have more than one resource and am currently on schedule to close after the weekend. Because I was in a bad position I didn't get the best term but it's not terrible. All the numbers work, and besides it's only two of three payments anyways. I'm actually getting an Ok deal, a higher LTV than before. Only one of the fees is more, but that wont happen again So my lesson is to be better prepared by having more choices, not just one source.In this case, meaning a Lender, but also in every other category too. I'll never beg for money again. I'm submit to all of them and let them fight for me. We do this with estimates, car repair, everything else but it seems many of us try to stick with a lender or bank for some reason. Next up- Rehabbing two places at one time...