Wife Math! (Encouragement post)
Wife Math: She leaned in closer, smiled and said, "That adds up to divorce." I blinked. Then smiled. "You're really good with numbers, thank you." *** What's clear communication worth in YOUR marriage? Not all investments add up the same outcome *** Once upon a time, I was in discussion for a project out of country. Looking at the opportunity, I asked my wife Autumn, "What's $5000 times 52 weeks?" And that's when she gave me that divorce answer. Which was fantastic feedback for me. The project would have taken me out of the country for a full year, and paid over a $250K ... but for her, having me gone for a full year wouldn't work. She's not a gifts type of person, she's a quality time and physical touch woman. Sure, we'd make some good money, but to her... she might as well not even be married since I'd be gone an entire year from her life, and the lives of our children. And, that's okay for some women, just not for mine. See, we're TOLD on social media about how women just want $$$, and a high net man, and all the rest... but the truth is, the RIGHT partner for you will work WITH you, communicate WITH you, share WITH you her need and wants, fears, dreams and desires. But YOU have to create the emotional safety, the judgment-free zone with each other to get raw, real, open and honest. Done well, that makes your marriage unstoppable! A LACK of clear communication can cost you everything - it's often easer to see the pain of a failed marriage... but what if your marriage was thriving? Expanding? Growing and glowing through the season of your life? My motto is: Life is too short for bad food, or bad marriages. If you want an unstoppable life, let's talk..