How do you handle plans getting blown out of the water? Anger, disappointment, frustration, sadness can all lead to problems with your spouse. My birthday plans changed when a kiddo came home from school sick and my husband started feeling bad. Instead of a full day together and going out for dinner … I got to comfort the sweet girl that felt so bad for “ruining” my day. I get to model to her that we get to create our own experience. And assure her my day was not ruined! I get to show her my happiness in my relationship with her father is not contingent on 1 Date. That when you have a strong relationship hiccups like these don’t lead to destructive behaviors. I love that I got this experience, and that my sweet girl was feeling 100% by the evening!💕💕🙌🏼 So the importance of ending my destructive relationships allows me to show up as the best mom possible! And show them what is possible and what to expect!

And I’m celebrating the amazing relationship that has grown over the years by applying the tools and principles I teach you! Celebrate your relationship too! Tell me what you are most proud of in yours!

It can be very challenging to be in a place of servitude when you feel like your own needs are not being met by your partner. When this happens, do you notice yourself pulling away from serving your partner? Or do you continue to serve your partner because that is who you are? I know I have personally in the past struggled to give when I’m not receiving, what about y’all?

What is your favorite relationship Book? I love the 5 Love Languages.

Do you date your partner anymore? How often do you make it a priority to go out on romantic date nights? Weekend getaways? Day date?