Congratulate yourselves on being the early bird who got the worm! You will be free in this group forever. I've now opened the group up to guys and am charging $9/month to join. I've stipulated in one of the questions that people should be asked permission before they get DMd...hopefully, this will cut down on guys who just want to find a woman! and you won't be harassed. If you ever encounter a persistent pest, please let me know and I will deal with it.