Thinking about Biblical Love, and how wrong we have it in popular culture.
Love is not toxic. Love is not hateful. Love is not selfish.
To the contrary:
1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (ESV)
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.