Oct 13 in Human Nature/Relationships
A Dirty Secret on Influence..
It’s important to understand that most people can only have relationships where they are benefitted in some way.
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•The ability to give to another selflessly is rare and difficult to cultivate because it takes genuine refinement of the personal character.
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•Therefore, the way to influence most people is through “value propositions”. Psychologically we are attracted to people who we FEEL can offer us valuable or pleasurable experiences.
What’s “valuable” is dependent on the person you’re dealing with, but pleasure is universal. We always want it. And even more specifically, we want to avoid or turn away from pain. Our desire for pleasure is always an attempt to run from pain, and people are in pain over something most of the time. People carry pain and problems on their shoulder daily.(Another reason to be KIND always)
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•Everyone has pain points, and they reveal them in very subtle ways. A scrunching face when you speak on a touchy subject which triggers and insecurity or a slight wince when you say something they don’t agree with.
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•If you are observant enough, you will see this. Making mental notes, you can craft a conversation which will influence the person into your way of thinking by framing your proposition as taking them away from the pain they’re experiencing. There are also energetic aspects of this but for now we are focusing on words and observation.
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•Doing this for ethical reasons can change someone’s life for the better because you’ve influenced them in a proper direction.
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•Or you could take this and fuck up everything you see with it but that would be on you and what goes around comes around WITH INTEREST, so just don’t.
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•I will be making a video for the community about Hypnotic Suggestion and how to use it with selling, marketing, human interaction, and on yourself so you can amplify your results in relationships by taking control of them on a subconscious level.
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The power is being put in your hands. Use it well.
-Karter V.
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A Dirty Secret on Influence..
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