🌟 Breaking Free from the Past: The Power of NOW 🌟

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Ever feel like your thoughts and emotions are running the show, keeping you stuck in the same old patterns? Don't worry—you’re not alone! There's a fantastic way to turn this around, and it's all about focusing on the present. Enter Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), your toolkit for reshaping how you think, feel, and act—without diving deep into the past. Here are the main topics from this Neuropsyche Short. What is your experience with this type of mindful practice?

🧠 Thoughts, Feelings, Actions: The Power Trio CBT helps you understand how your thoughts influence your emotions and actions. The cool part? Instead of just rehashing old memories, you learn to identify and change those pesky negative thought patterns in real-time!

💬 Reframe That Inner Critic We've all got that inner critic—that little voice that loves to tell us what we’re doing wrong. With CBT, you can turn those critical thoughts into constructive ones. For example, swap "I'm terrible at this" with "I’d like to improve, and here’s what I can do." It's about being kinder to yourself and turning criticism into growth.

❤️ Self-Compassion Is Key Beating yourself up doesn't lead to growth, but showing yourself the kindness you’d give a friend? That’s where the magic happens. Learn to pause when negative thoughts arise, acknowledge them, and respond with compassion. It's like giving yourself a big mental hug!

😱 Facing Fears & Anxiety We all experience anxiety—sometimes, it can be downright paralyzing. CBT offers practical exercises to help you confront and manage these feelings. From reframing fears to realizing your past resilience, you’ll discover ways to break free from the anxiety loop.

🍽 Managing Cravings Whether it’s food, adrenaline, or other temptations, cravings can feel overwhelming. With CBT, you learn to listen to your body's real cues and take charge of your impulses. A little mindfulness can go a long way in helping you make healthier choices.

Try the one below this morning or evening... Let me know what thoughts come to mind?

To begin, sit quietly and listen to your thoughts for five minutes. What self-

critical thoughts come to mind? Just notice what comes, without judging or

trying to stop them. These are what we call automatic thoughts. Write them

down.

Next, review your list of self-critical thoughts and circle three of them that you

find most bothersome. We call these your "hot" thoughts.

Now look at these three hot thoughts objectively and see if you can reframe

them as more constructive, helpful statements. For example: "I'm terrible with

money" could be reframed as "I’d like help with money management." "I'm not a

good friend" could be reframed as "I care about improving my friendships and

will think of something nice to do for a friend." "I'm a lazy parent" could be reframed as "I'm tired, but I care about my children. I will think of a small way to show them I care, despite feeling tired."

By practicing this reframing technique, you'll start to recognize that your inner

critic, while harsh, is often trying to help you improve. The key is to acknowledge

its presence, but reframe its messages into more constructive, actionable

feedback. By developing more positive self-talk and a productive relationship

with your inner critic, you can support your personal growth and self-esteem at

the same time.

Cheers!

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