I’m 24 yr old virgin (sad to say) who is not afraid to talk to females but has struggled to get into relationships as I’m a guy who doesn’t believe in being friends with girls.
I have now switched up my mindset of instead of pouring my energy into a girl, I always let the woman approach and let the girl control their intentions and situations. A lot of girls say “hi” and “bye” and love to talk to me but whenever I try to get to know them like asking personal questions or making plans like going to get food it doesn’t work out and they usually gravitate away from me (personal, work, groups, school, etc)
Am I right that guys shouldn’t be friends with girls and even so I only hangout with my guy friends and don’t really consider a girl to be that way.
Do I just have bad luck with females idk really? Just really looking for a long term relationship