Building an extraordinary life (by its very definition) requires an above ordinary effort.
Some of you though have a pattern of behavior that will prevent you from ever achieving it. That pattern goes like this:
1) You pay for a course
2) You donāt get the result you wanted as fast as youād like
3) You call it a scam and bounce to the next shiny object
One of the back door benefits of being in this community is you canāt use that excuse here. All of the information is free and youāve seen week after week your peers having success with it.
That means you have no one to blame but YOURSELF.
Ultimately thatās a good thing. Excuses, valid or not, will never lead to long-term success. If youāre being honest with yourself, theyāre really just a way for you to avoid admitting you failed.
BUTā¦failure is a š part of the success process. You only achieve extraordinary goals by embracing your failure and learning to overcome it.
Iām no different. Iāve failed countless times to get me where I am today:
- I got fired from my first job out of college (I didnāt like it so didnāt put in the work necessary to add value to the company)
- I never really made a ton of money working for my large financial advisor firm (I wasnāt willing to make cold calls outside of my network)
- I struggled for years with day trading before I ever made any real money (I lacked the mindfulness required to be consistent)
- I put off building an online business for a whole year before I got it going (I didnāt have any sales or marketing skills)
Notice how I never blamed my circumstances or someone else? All of these failure were MY FAULT. Just like yours are all on YOU now.
That can be a scary thingā¦
But itās also liberating! It means you have complete control to shape your own destiny šŖ