You 馃憠馃徏Yes, you. The one who rehearsed that conversation in your head five different ways before speaking up in today's meeting. I see you.
You know that moment when you're about to share an idea, and your heart does that little skip, and then you decide to "think about it more first"? How many brilliant thoughts have you swallowed that way?
And what about those photos you take, the ones you never share because every time you look at them, you find another tiny flaw? Yes, those ones. The art that stays hidden on your phone because it's "not quite there yet"?
[Take a breath. Feel where those questions land...]
Tell me - how exhausting is it to constantly edit yourself before you speak? To run every word through that internal filter of "but what will they think?"
馃敭 Reality Mirror: Right now, in this moment:
- How many times today did you start to say something, then pull back?
- What would you be creating if you weren't so focused on getting it "perfect"?
- Who isn't getting to experience your genuine self because you're busy polishing your edges?
Here's what no one's telling you: Every time you say "I just need to..." or "I'm almost ready..." or "Once I have X qualification...", you're paying a premium for protection you've outgrown.
鈿★笍 Personal Inventory: Be brutally honest with yourself:
- How many times this week did you make yourself smaller to feel safe?
- What passion project is gathering dust while you get "more prepared"?
- Whose life isn't being changed because you're waiting to be "enough"?
Sit with those answers. Let them be uncomfortable.
馃 Truth Portal: Complete this sentence: "If I added up all the moments I've held back, the real cost has been..."
馃拵Share: What's one thing you're no longer willing to postpone?
Remember that the voice telling you "not yet" isn't protecting your future, it's charging rent on your present.
P.S. Want to know my personal "not enough" tax? The one I finally stopped paying? Check the comments... because we're all in this together 馃挮