Yesterday i talked with my brother who is very mentally unwell. He has bad relationship with all of us in the family, and when i tried telling him some advice that helped me. He said: "Who are you to teach me what to do with my life?". His biggest issue with reaching his goals is EGO! Don't let your ego ruin you, i joined a martial arts club partly because i want to keep myself humble. Everyone can act cocky until they get hit in the jaw. Keep your ego in check guys!