Does it make sense that a person gets in touch with their soul before they can find their soulmate?

Some of the best advice I have ever received is that before searching for your soul mate, it is crucial to focus on connecting with your soul and building a solid relationship with yourself.

Why?

It's easy to fall into the trap of expecting someone else to complete us.

We can't find fulfillment in another person without seeing it within ourselves.

Getting in touch with your soul means accepting yourself at your core—your strengths, vulnerabilities, dreams, and even your scars.

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@Justin Yip

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It's about spending time alone and delving into what makes your heart truly happy.

When we genuinely know and love ourselves, we stop relying on someone else to fill our voids. Instead, we bring a sense of completeness to our relationships, which paves the way for healthier and more genuine connections.

And if you're already in a committed relationship, remember that the personal work never stops. It's actually even more essential.

Relationships can't flourish if we constantly seek validation from the other person. Take time to reconnect with yourself. Find moments for reflection, creativity, or simply some alone time.

Investing in our own growth and self-awareness results in us showing up differently in our relationships. We become better partners – more patient, compassionate, and capable of genuine intimacy.

It's also vital to understand that a relationship is constantly evolving. We change, and so do our partnerships. As you strengthen your bond with your soul, invite your partner to embark on that journey with you. Share your progress, aspirations, and fears, and encourage them to do the same.

When both individuals are committed to their personal growth and the growth of the relationship, relationships truly flourish. By staying true to who you are, you can create space for a more meaningful and fulfilling relationship—one built on mutual respect, love, and shared growth, not on dependency.

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