When meeting someone successful , well put together, exuberantly confident, positively engaging, radiating good energy and seemingly has everything going for them. The question to ask is not โwhat is your secret?โ Or โHow do you do it?โ . It should be โwhen did you meet chaos?โ. Because chances are, that person, at some point in their lives, went through hell and back. At some point, they had to navigate through loss, sorrow, deprivation, uncertainty, failure and pain. Rare are the cases that show otherwise.
If you want to be a fully realized human being, you must go through difficulty.