First things first, there’s going to be zero fluff in this group. Fluff isn’t going to allow anyone to learn from each others mistakes and grow and that’s the whole purpose of this group. Also it doesn’t matter the industry, this can apply to anything. If you’re here it’s because you want to grow, make more money, grow your business, become a better version of yourself & support others who want to do the same along the way. So at a very high level, I made some business mistakes this year that costs me an easy $200k in commission. Whether it was me not locking something up quick enough or me putting too much trust in people when it shouldn’t have .. regardless it turned out to be massive losses which moving forward I’ll do everything I can to have it either never happen again or happen way less. The important thing here I want to highlight is .. I didn’t let those losses affect my performance going forward. It could’ve been very easy to sit back, be depressed and angry at the world at just sit there in my own thoughts… but nothing good was going to come from that. In business and life were going to take losses it is what it is. We can be the best of the best but it doesn’t matter the losses are going to come and we have to look at it like a simple “cost of doing business”. Sure, we need to do everything we can to mitigate the losses.. but they’re still going to come, it’s normal. Early in my career when I would take a loss, or something didn’t sell, or a deal fell through.. I’d go in full depression mode for 2-3 days. It was years later I realized how dumb and pointless that was because the same deals that fell through would go on to close a couple days or weeks later and the time I sat back depressed doing nothing was an absolute waste of time and was pointless. Point I’m trying to make is we need to manage our emotions and not let the losses affect us for more than 10 minutes max lol now when I take a loss I’m pissed for a couple minutes then I shake it off and keep pushing forward but that’s the only thing that’s going to get results.. not sitting there doing fuck all and feeling sorry for yourself lol

What's up everyone! For all the readers in here, what are you reading right now? Project 369 - Scripture Edition

Happy Thursday! 👋 We’re now 25+ strong—thank you all for being part of this collective of like-minded individuals focused on growth and elevation. Together, we’re lighthouses, sharing wisdom and guidance to support one another. Quick question 💡: We’re planning a “The Best You” potluck-networking event for Sunday, December 29th. Please vote in the poll below if you can join us. Muchas gracias! 🤝

So grateful to be here and excited to join this amazing community. You are both truly inspiring, and your message will resonate with so many. Today, I’m heading to a retreat in the Northern Jungle of Thailand, in a beautiful place called Pai. The experience includes: - Soundbath - Water Therapy - Thai Bodywork - Yoga Nidra - Ceremony I’m so looking forward to this journey—this place would be right up your alley! 🙏❤️ Also putting the finishing touches on a Skool community for women. Launching in 2025 stay tuned!

Ever felt like no matter what you do or how many calls you make for example… you just get something going or start to build momentum ? Been there Early in my sales journey there’s been times ( I’m in sales as I’m sure you guys know lol ) where I would sit there and make 100 calls a day 6 days a week and still wouldn’t sell anything.. & trust me, it wasn’t the skillset or communication skills lol After a week of not selling anything I would sit there frustrated and think to my self what in the actual fu*k is going on ? I just made 100 calls a day 6 days a week and haven’t sold anything or made any money ??? So I would take a step back and look at who I’ve “been being”. I would quickly realize who I’ve been being was not aligned with who I know I could be. I was having zero integrity with habits routines and rituals. I was eating like shit, barely going to the gym, watching reality tv garbage at night, surrounding my self by low quality people, waking up late, being a shit son & brother & just overall wasn’t BEING the person I know I was capable of being. Sounds messed up but, because I was lacking integrity in my personal life it was almost blocking me from seeing success in my business life. The next week even just the simple THOUGHT of getting back on track and doing what I know I was supposed to do and BEING the person I know I had to be for myself, my family, my friends and colleagues … first call I would make I would sell something. Control the controllable’s Life’s hard enough and for a lot of us the odds are already stacked against us… don’t make it harder. Control what you can control and position yourself in a way to fkn win Happy Wednesday people