met this girl out the front of the club at 4am doing tiktok lives and i genuinely thought it was super interesting so i talked to her about it and she told me that she makes IDR 20 million a month which is a decent salary for indonesians. then we ended up having a 30 min conversation, and i took her to the beach and went back to her crib. W

I cold approached a girl in university the other day and I followed the methods, @Steph Speaks has taught me and I was able to get her to text to me saying that I hope you’ll come to the event on Thursday After the event should I introduce the girl to get some coffee or eat out on the weekend. During the event on Thursday how can I convince her to be able to hangout?

Listen lads at the end of the day you can read, you can watch, you can listen to all of the pickup and dating advice you want. You can extract all of the knowledge you want from sitting around and learning, but guess what none of that shit will even matter if you cant even work up the balls to approach. Take me as an example, i remember when i first started figuring out how to seduce women and become more attractive to them i literally spent 4 months reading, taking notes, watching videos etc on how to pick up chicks and guess what? I didnt approach a single chick during that time, guess what bruv you dont become big by reading a book on body science and nutrition sure it can help but you actually get big by going to the gym and figuring out how to workout yourself. now another point is that you will LEARN your own way of approaching, of attracting, which will in turn make you more authentic which is something steph says is extremely important. if you just replicate the way another person approaches, and attracts etc you will emulate them which is not good, because you're not being you - you're pretending to be someone you're not. So EVEN if you hit it off with this girl and got to know her she will see straight through you eventually, she will see you for your insecure self. sorry lads but this is how it is, in order to attract you need to be yourself, you need to approach, you need to become confident your own way, you just need to get out there and fucking do it. EMBRACE EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU if you get rejected good, who gives a fuck you keep on going and going until you get it right not every single women is going to be attracted to you. if you keep this up and you embrace rejection what you are doing is you are becoming more and more sure of yourself, everytime you get turned away you say to yourself oh well she lost, move on, and find another girl. DONE

What’s better/more efficient let me know👇

I want to share my experience with rotating locations (taking the girl to a new location after meeting her) I’ve been practising pickup for the past 6 months now and one of the most valuable things i’ve learnt to get QUICK fucks is to rotate them to another location after meeting them. So far this has only worked at clubs as people are in a fun and relaxed environment where realistically anything can go😆 What i like to do is find a club that has a fun venue nearby like a Shisha bar for example. There is the one club near where i live and next door there’s this Perfect shisha bar. Anyway you need to go and do your ting, go shoot atleast 5-10 girls and at the end of your pickup, after you get the contact, just simply ask if they’d like to join you at the shisha bar and that you’ll dm them when you arrive. So once you’ve got a satisfactory amount of contacts simply head over to your venue send a photo to ALL the girls and ask them if they’d like to come and to bring their friends etc - some of them will and some won’t then you can choose the hottest and done ✅ (don’t bring all of the fucking girls at the same time 🤣or maybe you can if u feeling like a pimp) So when these girls arrive make sure you gotta homie with you that’s confident who can spit game to her friends cos most of the time the girl will bring her friends, just treat it like a date make her laugh buy her food be respectful have a deep conversation and grab her and kiss her as well once you’ve got that ice broken anyways if you wanna hear storys about some of these dates lmk in the comments