Congrats! You're the new starter... now what?
NFL rookie kicker Brayden Narveson was just cut, because he didn't live up to the Packers expectations (missing 5 kicks this season). A coaching friend of mine asked me if I had any "words of wisdom" for a 3rd team QB who is now thrust into the starting role in a key game. What must they be feeling? For Narveson, who is a very talented kicker, he always looked like he was an imposter for the role. His replacement will have even more pressure. For this young college QB, he's waited 3 years for the chance to start... and now it's his. Here's what I told my coaching friend, to tell him: He’s been busting his butt for this VERY OPPORTUNITY. I’d focus on that… and how to keep him from getting jittery. In my case, I was put into that role with not much warning as a freshman when QB’s 1 & 2 went down in successive games. All of a sudden, Mr. 3rd team is the starter. It happened so fast that I didn’t have much time to worry. I felt the support of my line, but realized that they must be thinking, “Man, we’re in trouble now.” Thing was, I got off to a fast start and our offense went right down and scored, in part due to my running ability. Something I really didn’t even know was a key asset of mine — speed. It added something to the offense that was different than the other guys. He might be feeling a little “imposter” syndrome, too… but if you can get him to focus on what his best assets are, and realize that there’s a reason why he’s in the starting spot now, it may ease some of the anxiousness he’s sure to be feeling. Also, go back to… “you’ve worked this hard for EXACTLY this moment.” Be excited for it. To my kickers, I tell them about the psychology of your brain in NOT be able to tell the difference between stress and excitement, other than how you frame the stress. If you’re worried about the kick, your chances of missing are high. BUT, if you’re excited for the chance to succeed (which is basically why you play sports), then you are likelier TO SUCCEED. Turn your anxiousness into excitement... that's the trick. Now, can you convince your brain that it's true? 🤩